December 2010 Archives

Many of us struggle to make conversation at Christmas gatherings, whether church events, work-related parties, neighborhood drop-ins, or annual family occasions. Sometimes our difficulty lies in having to chat with people we rarely see or have never met. At other times we simply don't know what to say to those with whom we feel little in common. Moreover, as Christians we want to take advantage of the special opportunities provided by the Christmas season to share our faith, but are often unsure how to begin. Here's a list of questions designed not only to kindle a conversation in almost any Christmas situation, but also to take the dialogue gradually to a deeper level. Use them in a private conversation or as a group exercise, with believers or unbelievers, with strangers or with family.

1. What's the best thing that's happened to you since last Christmas?
2. What was your best Christmas ever? Why?
3. What's the most meaningful Christmas gift you've ever received?
4. What was the most appreciated Christmas gift you've ever given?
5. What was your favorite Christmas tradition as a child?
6. What is your favorite Christmas tradition now?
7. What do you do to try to keep Christ in Christmas?
8. Why do you think people started celebrating the birth of Jesus?
9. Do you think the birth of Jesus deserves such a nearly worldwide celebration?
10. Why do you think Jesus came to earth?

From C.J. Mahaney's blog:

On Sunday morning, December 21, 1856, Charles Spurgeon preached a sermon to prepare his growing church for the coming Christmas season. He titled it "Going Home," and the aim of the message was to encourage each member of his congregation to humbly, wisely, and appropriately find opportunities to share their personal testimony with family and friends.

Spurgeon's sermon text was taken from the dramatic account of Jesus healing the Gerasene demoniac in Mark 5:1-20. Spurgeon focused his attention on Jesus's commission to the man after he was healed: "Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you, and how he has had mercy on you" (v. 19).

After explaining the demoniac's radical life-transformation by Christ and his commission to go home, Spurgeon commissioned his church to return home. In the remainder of the sermon Spurgeon develops several practical points:

• Christmas is suited for sharing the gospel with family and friends.
• Aim to share the story of God's grace in your life.
• By sharing we edify believers.
• By sharing we reach lost friends and family.
• Be alert for one-on-one opportunities to share your story.
• Don't expect this sharing to be easy.
• Overcome this fear by sharing to honor your Savior.
• Share your story with gratitude to God.
• Share your story with humility.
• Share your story truthfully--don't embellish it.
• Tell your story seriously--don't share it flippantly.
• Don't neglect your personal devotions during Christmas.
• Rest upon the Holy Spirit's help to share.
• Remember that this story you share over the holidays is the story that will be on your lips eternally.

Get more details about each of Spurgeon's points here.

Evangelist Scott Hinkle and his wife, Nancy, have sold everything to reach one of the most unchurched regions of the United States...

And that is why Scott Hinkle, a charismatic evangelist who grew up near the Jersey shore, recently returned there with his wife, Nancy. They have planted a church right in the middle of this American Babylon.

"There is absolutely no trace evidence that Christianity has ever been here," says Hinkle, 59. Last year he and Nancy planted Jersey Life Church in the community of Red Bank, about 30 miles south of the Newark airport. The congregation, which has about 35 members, just celebrated its one-year anniversary...

I believe we are building a strong, vibrant church that will reach out to the greater Jersey Shore area," he says with contagious optimism. "We are going to make a big difference as we serve the practical and spiritual needs of this community."